A decade ago, a woman was killed in a car crash in Paris. This caused extreme outpourings of "grief" from people who had never even met the woman, let alone actually had any sort of relationship with her. And this has led to what Cranmer has referred to as to the "Dianaification" of society:
Dianification: the seeking of a shared and public grief at any given opportunity; the idea that a method of mourning is driven more by selfishness and secularism than by sincerity of emotion; corporate emoting; cumulative and protracted obsession with feelings and intuition.
I
don't like the absurd lengths to which it seems necessary to go with the demonstration of grief at any public - or just publicised - death. They are just people, and people die every day in every way. Unless you actually
knew the individual, there is really no excuse for such overt demonstrations. It's fine to feel sorrow at the loss of a life - we all do - but there is a line, which has been passed at seemingly every single opportunity since that event a decade ago today.
When she died in that car crash, I was 12. I remember mainly being annoyed at the way that the death of just one woman had completely taken over the airwaves, obliterating everything else than had been planned to be shown. And neither was it just for one day. I remember it went on for the best part of a week!
Diana the woman was not as saintly as he has been made out to be in the decade since her death. I know that it is the natural response - to erase the natural faults of a person in order to idolise them better, "never speak ill of the dead" as the saying goes. But the sanctification of Diana has come with the demonisation of Charles and Camilla, primarily along the whole "they committed adultery" line. But Diana did too. Maybe not until after Charles had, but she still did it. She is by no means a completely innocent partner in their break-up.
I hope that after the
memorial service today that the ghost of Diana will finally be put to rest. Let it be over, for everyone's sake, not least that of her sons. She is dead, and has been dead for an entire decade.